THIS TYPE OF SEXUAL ATTRACTION IS A DEFENSE AGAINST AWARENESS OF THE MOST PAINFUL EXPERIENCE IN THE EARTH SCHOOL...THE EXPERIENCE OF BEING POWERLESS.
EXPERIENCES OF ADDICTIVE SEXUAL ATTRACTION CAN BE CONTINUAL AND INTENSE, OCCUPYING ALMOST EVERY THOUGHT, OR THEY CAN BE IN THE BACKGROUND OF AWARENESS, AND ONLY ACTIVATED BY THE APPEARANCE OF A POTENTIAL SEXUAL PARTNER.
THE EXPERIENCE OF ADDICTIVE SEXUAL ATTRACTION IS A FLAG THAT SIGNALS A CRAVING FOR MEANING, PURPOSE, AND VALUE.
THE MORE INTENSE THE PAIN OF FEAR, UNWORTHINESS, AND FEELING UNLOVEABLE BECOMES, THE MORE OBSESSIVE BECOMES THE NEED TO HAVE A SEXUAL INTERACTION.
THAT IS WHY ADDICTIVE SEXUAL INTERACTIONS ARE BARRIERS TO INTIMACY, EVEN THOUGH THEY APPEAR TO BE INTIMATE.
CONNECTING THE EXPERIENCE OF ADDICTIVE SEXUAL ATTRACTION WITH THE AVOIDANCE OF PAINFUL EMOTIONS IS A SIGNIFICANT STEP IN HEALING AN ADDICTION TO SEX.
IN LOVING SEXUAL INTIMACY, SEXUAL PARTNERS ARE NOT INTERCHANGEABLE.
FOR FUTHER INFORMATION....CONTACT ME.
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Sunday, October 18, 2009
SAVIOR SEARCHING
SAVIOR SEARCHING IS THE EFFORT TO LOCATE AN INDIVIDUAL OR CIRCUMSTANCE THAT CAN DELIVER YOU FROM DISCOMFORT.
ROMATIC ATTRACTION IS THE EXPERIENCE OF LOCATING A SAVIOR. THE SEARCH FOR SALVATION TAKES YOUR ATTENTION AWAY FROM WHAT YOU FEEL AND PLACES IT ON EXTERNAL CIRCUMSTANCES. YOU PLACE UPON YOUR SAVIORS THE RESPONSIBILITY FOR DOING THE WORK THAT ONLY YOU CAN DO. WHEN YOU PLACE AS MUCH ATTENTION ON WHAT YOU ARE FEELING IN YOUR BODY AS YOU PUT ON THE SEARCH FOR A SAVIOR, YOU BECOME YOUR OWN SALVATION.
SAY TO YOURSELF, " I AM THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN CREATE HAPPINESS IN MY LIFE. THE SOURCE OF MY HAPPINESS IS WITHIN ME."
YOUR PAINFUL EMOTIONS TELL YOU WHAT NEEDS TO BE CHANGED IN YOU, NOT IN OTHER PEOPLE.
ROMATIC ATTRACTION IS THE EXPERIENCE OF LOCATING A SAVIOR. THE SEARCH FOR SALVATION TAKES YOUR ATTENTION AWAY FROM WHAT YOU FEEL AND PLACES IT ON EXTERNAL CIRCUMSTANCES. YOU PLACE UPON YOUR SAVIORS THE RESPONSIBILITY FOR DOING THE WORK THAT ONLY YOU CAN DO. WHEN YOU PLACE AS MUCH ATTENTION ON WHAT YOU ARE FEELING IN YOUR BODY AS YOU PUT ON THE SEARCH FOR A SAVIOR, YOU BECOME YOUR OWN SALVATION.
SAY TO YOURSELF, " I AM THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN CREATE HAPPINESS IN MY LIFE. THE SOURCE OF MY HAPPINESS IS WITHIN ME."
YOUR PAINFUL EMOTIONS TELL YOU WHAT NEEDS TO BE CHANGED IN YOU, NOT IN OTHER PEOPLE.
Monday, October 12, 2009
THE NEW SPECIES
SINCE THE ORGIN OF THE HUMAN SPECIES, THE NEED TO FEEL SAFE, VALUABLE, AND LOVED HAS FOCUSED OUR ATTENTION OUTWARD TOWARD WHAT IS EXTERNAL.
BILLIONS OF HUMANS LIVE IN POVERTY, ARE HUNGRY, AND SUFFER OPPRESSION, HUMILIATION, AND BRUTALITY. CHANGING THESE CIRCUMSTANCES REQUIRES OUR HEARTS.
SPIRITUAL GROWTH IS NOW REPLACING SURVIVAL AS THE CENTRAL OBJECTIVE OF THE HUMAN EXPERIENCE.
WE ARE LEARNING HOW TO LOOK INSIDE OF OURSELVES TO FIND THE ROOTS OF OUR INSECURITIES AND TO PULL THEM.
IT IS NOT SKILL, TALENT, HOMES, OR CARS THAT PRODUCE DESTRUCTIVE CONSEQUENCES. IT IS THE INTENTION TO USE THEM TO MANIPULATE AND TO CONTROL OTHERS IN ORDER TO MAKE YOURSELF FEEL VALUABLE AND LOVED.
THE NEW HUMAN SPECIES LOOKS AT THE EXTERNAL WORLD OF THINGS, INTERACTIONS, AND EXPERIENCES AS A MIRROR THAT REFLECTS AN INTERNAL WORLD OF INTENTIONS, EMOTIONS, AND THOUGHTS.
FOR MORE HELP IN THIS AREA..CONTACT ME THROUGH MY WEB SITE.
BILLIONS OF HUMANS LIVE IN POVERTY, ARE HUNGRY, AND SUFFER OPPRESSION, HUMILIATION, AND BRUTALITY. CHANGING THESE CIRCUMSTANCES REQUIRES OUR HEARTS.
SPIRITUAL GROWTH IS NOW REPLACING SURVIVAL AS THE CENTRAL OBJECTIVE OF THE HUMAN EXPERIENCE.
WE ARE LEARNING HOW TO LOOK INSIDE OF OURSELVES TO FIND THE ROOTS OF OUR INSECURITIES AND TO PULL THEM.
IT IS NOT SKILL, TALENT, HOMES, OR CARS THAT PRODUCE DESTRUCTIVE CONSEQUENCES. IT IS THE INTENTION TO USE THEM TO MANIPULATE AND TO CONTROL OTHERS IN ORDER TO MAKE YOURSELF FEEL VALUABLE AND LOVED.
THE NEW HUMAN SPECIES LOOKS AT THE EXTERNAL WORLD OF THINGS, INTERACTIONS, AND EXPERIENCES AS A MIRROR THAT REFLECTS AN INTERNAL WORLD OF INTENTIONS, EMOTIONS, AND THOUGHTS.
FOR MORE HELP IN THIS AREA..CONTACT ME THROUGH MY WEB SITE.
Friday, October 2, 2009
EARTH SCHOOL
EVEN IF YOU ARE NOT AWARE OF YOUR EMOTIONS, THEY ARE ALWAYS BEING PRODUCED INSIDE YOU. EVERYONE IN THE EARTH SCHOOL TAKES THE SAME COURSE---AUTHENTIC POWER---BUT DIFFERENT STUDENTS NEED TO TAKE DIFFERENT CLASSES IN ORDER TO COMPLETE IT.
THERE ARE TWO TYPES OF CLASSES IN THE EARTH SCHOOL---CLASSES ABOUT FEAR AND CLASSES ABOUT LOVE. INSTEAD OF TRYING TO CHANGE CIRCUMSTANCES OR PEOPLE, EXAMINE THE EMOTIONS YOU ARE EXPERIENCING.
LOOKING INWARD INSTEAD OF FOCUSING ON OUTWARD CIRCUMSTANCES IS AN IMPORTANT STEP IN THE PROCESS OF SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENT. YOUR CLASS ROOM IS YOUR LIFE. YOUR TASK AS A STUDENT IN THE EARTH SCHOOL IS NOT TO CHANGE YOUR PARNETS, BOSS, EMPLOYEES, OR CLASSMATES. IT IS TO CHANGE YOURSELF.
ONLY YOU CAN MAKE PERMANENT CHANGES IN YOURSELF.
THERE ARE TWO TYPES OF CLASSES IN THE EARTH SCHOOL---CLASSES ABOUT FEAR AND CLASSES ABOUT LOVE. INSTEAD OF TRYING TO CHANGE CIRCUMSTANCES OR PEOPLE, EXAMINE THE EMOTIONS YOU ARE EXPERIENCING.
LOOKING INWARD INSTEAD OF FOCUSING ON OUTWARD CIRCUMSTANCES IS AN IMPORTANT STEP IN THE PROCESS OF SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENT. YOUR CLASS ROOM IS YOUR LIFE. YOUR TASK AS A STUDENT IN THE EARTH SCHOOL IS NOT TO CHANGE YOUR PARNETS, BOSS, EMPLOYEES, OR CLASSMATES. IT IS TO CHANGE YOURSELF.
ONLY YOU CAN MAKE PERMANENT CHANGES IN YOURSELF.
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